Characteristics of Women Sholeha According to the Qur'an
Not many conditions imposed by Islam for a woman to receive a degree solehah, and so receive the reward of bliss heaven from God Almighty They just need to meet only two requirements, namely:
1. Obey Allah and His Messenger
2. Obedience to husbands
The details of the two conditions above are as follows:
1 - Obedience to Allah and His Messenger
How to say obey Allah s.w.t. ?
- Loving God s.w.t. and Prophet s.a.w. excess of everything.
- Mandatory closing aurat
- No makeup and behave like a woman of Ignorance
- No bermusafir or with adult males unless there with him
- Often assist men in the case of truth, virtue and piety
- Do good to the mother and father
- Was always a good charity in difficult circumstances or happy
- No retreat with adult males
- Be nice to the neighbors
2. Obedience to husbands
- Maintain kewajipan against husband
- Was always fun husband
- Maintain self-respect and treasure her for dead husbands at home.
- Do not frown in the presence of her husband.
- Do not say no to her husband to sleep
- Do not go out without the husband's permission.
- Do not raise your voice sound than husbands
- Do not deny her husband the truth
- Do not accept guests who hated her husband.
- Was always maintain themselves, physical cleanliness and beauty, and household
FACTORS THAT WOMEN'S DIGNITY CONDESCENDING
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Actually, the low peak dignity of women is coming from the factor. It is not external factors or in the form of material as heralded by the fake feminists women.
These factors are:
1) Forget to remember Allah
Kerana too busy with outdoor activities or tasks and nurture children, it is no wonder so many women are not aware that he had been negligent of the remembrance of Allah. And when this omission is essentially the most dangerous time for them, in which the devil will direct the passions in order to play. God's Word s.w.t. In Surah al-Jathiah, verse 23: it means:
"So Have you seen people who make their desires as his Lord and God let astray by science. Allah has set a seal hearing and his heart and put a cover on his sight."
Word of the Prophet s.a.w.: means:
"No one's perfect faith from you, so that he felt inclined to what I have to say." (History Tarmizi)
Remembrance of God s.w.t. not only with the remembrance, but termasuklah attend Majlis-Majlis science.
2) Easy to be fooled by the beauty of the world
The beauty of the world and did a lot of trapping women superiorly into the trap. Not only that, even satan easily memperalatkannya to attract men that were both wallowing in sin and stain. Not a few are capable of disobedience to Allah Almighty only his deep pleasures of the world are too few. God's Word s.w.t. In Surah al-An'am: means:
"And life is not of this world but play and negligence, and indeed the Hereafter is better for those who fear Allah, so do not you think."
3) Easily deceived by lust
4) Weak faith
5) Being this point.
Ad-dunya eye, eye khoirul 'al mar'atus sholich
World is jewelry, the world is a good woman sholihah.
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